My Top 10 Myths about Spain

What do you think of when I say “Spain” or, even better, “España”? Do bulls, flamenco dancers, and jarras of sangría spring to mind? Do you imagine yourself in a sunny land of jolly ladies wearing typical dancing outfits singing all the while? Well, I got news for ya, kid. That just ain’t true.

I’ve had ample time and opportunity to get to know Spain on a deeper level. Spain has, like any country, several stereotypes and myths that are perpetuated by the media and/or Big Brother, depending on how you see it. I’d like to address some of these myths and stereotypes.

1. The relaxed attitude is refreshing

Not true. It might be nice when you’re on vacation, but when you live here, it’s sometimes frustrating. See my post on the siesta for an example.

2. Sangría is Spain’s national drink


Uhh not really. If anything is Spain’s national drink, it’s red wine. Perhaps cañas (beer) in the summertime. But sangría is mainly for tourists.

3. Flamenco music is ubiquitous

I’ve never seen anyone dance flamenco. That’s partly to my location (northwest Spain), but also partly because, well, flamenco is a very particular type of music and it’s not an everyday thing.

4. Spanish food/culture is similar to Mexican

This one really grinds my gears because Spain, um, Spain is in Europe. They are much more similar to the Portuguese or the French (sorry, Mario) or Italians than they are to Mexicans. Their food is not spicy, not by a long shot. Any amount of chili peppers in their food would probably upset most Spaniards’ stomachs. So, not everyone who speaks Spanish in the U.S. is Mexcian/South American (hello, my boyfriend).

5. Bullfighting is very popular


Nope. It used to be a lot more popular, but nowadays many Spaniards have never even been to one. It’s expensive and can be rather hot in the middle of the summer, especially if you choose the cheaper seats (the ones not in the shade). Actually, Catalonia has banned bullfighting, although this doesn’t stop them from participating in other forms of mild bull torture.

6. Everyone in Spain speaks Spanish

While yes, most people do speak Castilian, there are four official languages of Spain: Castellano (what we know as Spanish), Basque, Catalán, and Galician. In specific regions of Spain, the children must speak either Basque, Catalán or Galician in their schools, even though those languages’ scope is quite limited. Basque itself is somewhat of an anomaly, its origin being unknown.

7. Tapas are a type of food

Tapas in Spain

Tapas can be anything: ham, olives, omelette, fried squid … anything! It’s a way of eating. Often, groups of friends will pool their money, buy everyone a round of a drink + small bite of food, and then head to the next bar until everyone has paid for a round. It’s quite fun and a cheap way to eat lots of different kinds of typical Spanish foods.

8. Spain is a very Catholic country

Spain has a long, storied history and much of it involves the Catholic church. This is true. You cannot go more than half a mile in most Spanish cities without seeing at least two churches. The great sites often involves churches and/or cathedrals. (See: La Sagrada Familia in Barcelona.) However, although 73% of Spaniards self-identify as Catholic, most do not participate in regular worship, according to the Spanish Center for Sociological Investigation. You can expect there to be a lot of religious symbolism and a lot of holidays based on Catholic traditions, though.

9. Spaniards are very healthy eaters and are typical of the Mediterranean diet

Mediterranean Lunch Spain

It’s true that Spaniards tend to eat more healthily than Americans. But things are changing in Spain, too. My students, when asked what their favorite Spanish food is, came up with “Pizza!” “Spaghetti!” “Hamburgers!”, not exactly what I’d call health food. Mario’s mother is a very traditional Spanish cook and makes healthy meals, based on fresh produce and meat, but nowadays it is easy to find frozen pizzas, Doritos, and large amounts of ready-made meals in Spain’s grocery stores, too.

10. Spaniards are super friendly, outgoing people

I think this is another Andalusian thing, much like flamenco. The people in the South of Spain do tend to fulfill this stereotype better, but even then, let’s not go too far. Just because they greet you with dos besos (two kisses) does not mean they like you or would even hug you. The kisses are just like the handshake and, besides, you don’t even really kiss, you just touch cheeks and make kissy noises. (Weird? Perhaps.) The Castilian people tend to be a bit colder, not necessarily rude, but just not outright happy to see you all the time. They’ll take their time getting to know you but once they do, you probably are a friend for life. Mario’s parents have taken me in as their honorary daughter and worry way too much about me. They probably wouldn’t walk up to a stranger on the street to ask him how he was doin’, but they certainly make sure I’m well-fed and happy. (I don’t think there’s been one dish at one meal that Pepita hasn’t asked, “¿Te gusta, Kaley?” (“Do you like it?”)

After this post, I hope you’ve come to understand Spain’s nuances a bit better. It may be small in size (about the size of Texas), but it makes up for it with a wealth of culture (and some great food)!

What are some other myths about Spain?

11 thoughts on “My Top 10 Myths about Spain

  1. I think you’ve nailed it, I’m spanish and couldn’t agree more with what you’ve said. A lot of the stereotypes are probably true in the south of Spain, but that is a small part of a big country. I especially agree with the “Spaniards are super friendly, outgoing people” topic, I am from Castilla and as you said we tend to be cold, it takes us a while to warm up to people since we are quite reserved.

    Thank you for clearing up those misconceptions.

  2. Thank you! So many people think these stereotypes are true, but that’s like saying all Americans have guns and like hot dogs. Up here in País Vasco, hardly any of those stereotypes are fulfilled!

  3. I am here in the far south where the Flamenco sterotype does cling a little longer. I don’t see it often, but I love seeing groups of teens all clapping along together, or an extended family at the beach suddenly break into a round of OLE’s. But I have been to a few peñas and they are mostly filled with seniors. You hear lots of “Flamencado” rock out of cars and we get the occasional late night gitano concert outside the window. But I kind of wish there was more of it.

  4. I’m so sad you disable comments on your older posts because I MISS TRADER JOE’S SOOOOO MUCH and your post “Walking Towards” was adorable.

  5. I just have to laugh at number three, since I am recently returned from the Salón Internacional de Moda Flamenca. Comes with the Sevilla territory. And, shockingly, everyone here knows how to dance a form of flamenco called Sevillanas. Maybe part of the reason I love this city so dearly!

  6. 2—True, though I was admittedly disappointed by the lack of sangria when I first got here.
    3—It definitely is in Andalucía, as others have noted. Granted, there are the tourist hot spots for flamenco shows. But there is also a very genuine flamenco scene, if you will, that does not cater to tourists. In my experience here, flamenco is very popular, especially more mainstream flamenquito (i.e., El Barrio).
    5—Again… bullfighting has plenty of aficionados down here in el sur. Different story in BCN, of course.
    6—I recently met an auxiliar here in Sevilla who was in A Coruña last year… she said the folks up north were much more friendly than the ones she’s met in Sevilla. Then again, Sevilla =/= all of Andalucía. I think the people are a bit more abierto in the pueblos than they are in the city.

    I think it’s hard to make a general list of myths about Spain as a nation but perhaps it’s easier to do so for each region. I only truly know the south, which is vastly different from Castilla y Leon, which is vastly different from Cataluña. And even though I might not conform to some Amurrican myths (I liked Liz’s examples of guns and hot dogs), I definitely do conform to others. I.e., I support gun control, but I’d eat a Chicago-style dog every day of my life if it wouldn’t kill me.

    1. You’re probably right. My main one, however, is Spanish food is not spicy! Spain is not Mexico! That pisses me off more than anything. :)

  7. Great observations Kaley. In my opinion some of these should be obvious to people in the US, but unfortunately they’re not. It’s like having to tell people that everyone doesn’t square dance or that some of us have never been to a rodeo.

  8. Wow, that’s a great article. Really. Me and my wife were thinking about moving in Malaga – we still do, but we first need to deal with some stuff – and, you know, you’re right, Andalucians are a bit more open. We’ve been in Barcelona for a couple of times and it is indeed a bit different, even as a tourist. But then again, the bigger the city, the colder the people. Now, that, I think, is valid for any country. In crowded places, life tends to become harsher, competition gets stronger, etc.

    What we did, however, loved about Malaga was the silence. And the smiley faces. And, you see, you say something quite interesting. Dos besos doesn’t mean they’re gonna hug you. But then again, how often do you see smiling people in other countries? That’s what makes Spain unique. OK, you might find them in Greece, but not unless they want something from you. In Greece, it’s marketing, in Spain, it’s a state of mind.

    Now, I think that’s what makes Spanish people happier, this way of seeing life in a pretty much calmer way. It’s the attitude. Yeah, they’re pissed off because of jobs, they might hate the government, but they can still relax and feel free, maybe much more free than the rest of us. And I think Spain, especially Andalucia, is a great place to live.

    Congrats for your blog, really.

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